Yesterday was the first time I “went out” since September. I gave up a majority of my partying and fun because I noticed that every time I went out most people only wanted to talk B.S., or Bullshit for short, instead of talking some real business. Me and some of my closest friends are at a point where we’re fed up with the nonsense, and would rather spend time making money or establishing helpful organizations for our communities. The only reason I went out last night was to keep myself sane. Still I found myself in a similar position where most people just wanted to have fun and talk dumbshit. Luckily I ran into a homie I hadn’t seen in a hot minute.

I got to talking with the homie and eventually our conversation made it’s way to business. I was so happy that I went out last night because I found out the homie has connections with a clothing company. I never would have thought this dude had anything to do with a clothing brand, but I guess you should never judge anyone before talking with them. I felt as if I had been placed in that situation for a reason, as if the Lord wanted me to be there to make this business connection. This is how all parties, social events and outings should be, a combination of fun and business.

I recently read an article about a young businessman who has worked with several CEOs, including Oprah. One characteristic he noticed about all of these business leaders was that no matter where they were (a party, charity fundraiser, or vacationing in Europe while relaxing in an exotic swimming pool) they always took time to discuss business. These business conversations may only seem like casual exchanges of skeletal business ideas. In reality these are groups of leaders who always think a billion steps ahead of the competition, as they plot their next power moves over dinner. It doesn’t matter whether the conversation is business, politics, community and the like. It only matters that the conversation leads to productivity, as opposed to consumption.

I agree. It’s okay to have fun, but you must surround yourself with the “right,” fun people who also want to accomplish big goals. You can have your cake and eat it to, so to speak.

AMEN

-MANÉ